A friend of mine is having a little girl after having a boy, doesnt want a baby shower as she believes its not her first she doesnt deserve one, so i was helping her find used cloths for cheap. Most baby cloths are stain free and they out grow them so fast that most children barely wear them 3 times before its time to go up a size..... ok so now what happened. I bought some girls cloths the "lady" said there were 25+outfits hats bibs and various other things for 15 dollars. This is our email messages I deleted the names because im not that kind of person.(start at the bottom)


Me--People like you are the reason no one trusts anymore. These cloths were not for me but for a friend. I do not dress my kids in stained cloths and neither does she. I should have known when i pulled in the drive that they would be stained, but i gave you the benefit of the doubt. wont make that mistake again! Im happy i could feed your children.


her--they did not seem stained to me. and do not complain theyre old clothes and your baby will most likely stain them up anyway. anywho thanks for feeding my family tonight.

Me--Im not sure what you consider a stain but over half of these items are stained or discolored. Next time please be honest!

her--kk


me--ok were leaving will prob be 15 20 min from where i live


her--thats no problem!


Me--im waiting on the baby to wake from nap time then i will leave sorry hes had a rough night.


Her--k thanks!


Me--ok ill message you when im on my way

Her--it would be easier if you came to pick it up. i will be home all day. i live off XYZ....

me--can i buy them tomorrow? what time would be good for you? do you prefer to meet or pick up?

Her--yes they are stain free

Me--If these are stain free i would like to purchase.

Once i got home i sent that. I didnt even mention that it was maybe 20 onsies only 1 outfit and over half were stained or discolored. I wouldnt have even listed most of these items as free on any site. Why cant people just be honest!!! Next time i will go with my gut. I have never stood anyone up but when you have people pick things up at your home and the home looks like a strong wind could blow it over expect this momma to drive on past and say sorry dont want them now. lesson learned the hard way. 

I had something similar happen a couple years ago. I did buy the stuff it was towels and stuff, but I did not use them, I threw them away afraid of bugs and stuff. The outside of your home is not storage for garbage(im not talking bags, im talking furniture and old stuff the dogs had been chewing on for quite some time). I have learned it is ok to text and say im sorry i will not be buying. Glad her kids got to eat, but sorry it was at your expense. 

Wow that was really rude of her. When is your friend due? I have tons of baby girl clothes left still I am trying to get rid of.