My husband came back from deployment and hasn?t lived with me since (one year) and now he is living with another solider in a relationship and she is a lower lower ranking then him and I don?t know what to do. I?m sick with it all. This is the second girl for him to shack up with. He had the first affair girl co-sign a vehicle note for him and now this private has him on her cell phone plan. Can?t he get in trouble for this??? Any advice would be amazing. Yes I?m filing for divorce but want to address this first. He refuses to divorce me but too bad.