I don't know what to do. I was working at McDonald's with this complete jerk off named John To. He seemed like a nice enough guy and we hit it off. Needless to say we slept together a couple times, had some drinks together, hung out,etc. I found out, after we had sex etc, that he was MARRIED and had a god damn baby who isn't even a year old yet. I feel so disgusted with myself. He didn't wear a ring, he never said anything, she never came in to McDonalds. I feel so dirty and like some cheap whore. I liked the guy and I was played. Now I don't know what to do. Luckily he was fired so I don't have to see him anymore, but I don't know if I should tell his wife. I don't want to come off as vengeful, because I don't want the cheating bastard back. Butthe poor wife, ya know? Does she have the right to now or is that their business. I am so confused right now and feel so cheap. Any advice?
Any any of you ladies meet this guy his name is John To, he is of Asian decent, kinda short and thin. he will make you think you are the most beautiful girl in the world. Beware. Your world will fall in on you when you find out the truth because he will lie.
OM...gurl...why would you post something so personal on here?
Lawton is a small town; I do know the guy...not intimately though, through facebook. Here is the URL for his FB and you can tell me if it is the same person.
MaryJane~ I guess I feel bad for his wife. I never met her, but how horrible and how sad. I don't want women to feel like I do I suppose. No one wants to be a mistress and that is what he made me without even asking. It angers me and makes me feel cheap, used, dirty, etc. NO WOMAN should feel that way. It is sad that you have to run a background check on someone. Least it feels that way, you know? I guess I should have thought more about it before posting it on here. I might have hurt more people then I realized. My intentions were to just make sure no one does what I did, because he wont be honest. And yes~that is the John To I am talking about.
Be careful. He is sneaky and a liar but like to play the victim. He has major anger problems. They were going to make him do anger management classes at the McDonalds on Lee. He is deceptive and has the men are above women attitude. He can be charming though. Very very charming but when you see his true colors its scary. I felt kinda bad for him and bought into his poor me life for awhile. Be careful hun.
Wow. Umm...hopefully his wife doesn't get on here! Well- maybe it would be good for her to find out but maybe she already knows. Some women just don't care. Whether the men cheat, hit, whatever they stay for some odd reason. And how is it you never looked at his myspace or facebook? I find a profile for both and it is kinda obvious he is married to me.
Actually, I don't even remember! Could have been through other friends or something. You know how FC make recommendations based on commom friends. That could have been it.
What I meant by my last comment is that I like my men like I like my chocolate; the darker the better it is for my health ;)
Wether you tell wifie or not, you'll be on the losing end because you are the other woman. It doesn't matter if you didn't know he was married, which I find it hard to believe since you two worked at the same place; you will always be the other woman.
It's a delicate situation and no one can really give you an advice as to what to do. Also, remember, there is a child involved in all this mess.
If you feel bad, that's ok, it shows that you have a conscience and will help you make better decisions when it comes to men in the future. it was a mistake, it happened. You'll bounce back from it and hopefully that guy quit messing around. Even if his wife knows, there is only so much a woman can take and he'll get what he deserves.
Wow is right. You certainly appear out for blood/vengeful just by posting this info on a public forum. Lord only knows how many of this couples friends or families read this site!!
On the other hand, you play you pay. He should have thought about the consequences long before banging the workplace hooch. Hopefully this wife of his laves his dumb a$$!!
And sadsongs, do you really expect us to believe you had NO clue???
umm I know both of them through a mutal friend. i am emailing his wife savannah. maybe other ppl should let her know too. email@example.com (got it off facebook)
(and this chick has a porn site! google firstname.lastname@example.org. it will cum up on xpeeps! i guess she aint that good huh!)
EEEWWWWWWWWWWWW...GROSS!!! They are made for each other! And she's in the military too? I am so ashamed! Well, after this developments, I don't think his wife will care if he sleeps around; I think she knows it and probably does it too. She's got ugly boobs...just saying...
actually if i remember rite they both in the military but both went ua. they ran away together before one of them or both of them could deploy. like multiple times. he brags to everyone how he outsmarted the military so says my mutual friend. they are both trashy if you ask me. i dont see how they got out of going to the brig.
Btw- the Craigslist post had someone who claimed to be his sister post. She said he now had herpes. Is this true? This keeps getting "better and better." Not necessarily in a good way either. *BARF* I might be losing that appetite! Hrhar.
this is the new post on craigslist from his sister so gross hope you didnt contract them
I'm sorry John treated you like he did my name is Sheila I am John's sister believe me he is a dog his wife already suspected he was running around and he admitted that he had a fling with " a hoe I worked with it meant nothing" but honestly I know of 2 other women he messed around with. Go get checked out he found out on wednesday that he has herpes. Hopefully he got it after you guys were together.
They sure are! I wish I hadn't looked but I'm too curious :P
They went UA and live so close to a military base? That's retarded.
Who needs cable when you have stuff like this going on?
It's kind of odd that his sister would post something like that on CL, who knows, could just be someone else messing with SadSongs to scare her.
Note: I know there will be someone that will come in here or start a thread about how we like to gossip and yada yada yada, I'll tell you know, save it; it's enterntaining and eveyone does it. You wouldn't be reading this thread if you didn't like it. So...
i dont know but ill tell ya this my husband and i are getting along excellent so i dont have entertainment in my life right now lol so this is just my cup of tea i dont and wont intentionally cause drama but if it has already been started ill put my 2 cents in this stuff is funny
yah they went ua. to ft sill from what i get but i guess they didnt get in much trouble. john brags about how he can beat the system all the damn time so i guess he dont give a squat. she must be the same way or a real pushover. your call on that one! from the pics she posted online of herself naked makes me wonder tho. who does that? epeshully if she is a mom! and I think he is at another fast food restraunt now but dont no what one.
wait he added me to his facebook too. looks like he is at whataburger now. real classy. from the army to the grill of fast food. if his fb is acurat he has had like 15 jobs in a year. what a loser. i guess they deserve each other. shes a ho and hes a grease monkey.
omg, this is frickin hilarious! i needed some entertainment. i looked at the link to her page and omg that's nasty! how could a woman degrade herself like that! anyways, thanks for the entertainment...i'm off to craigslist to laugh some more!!!
I agree. This stuff is too funny!!
And if you are going to shave your nasty a$$ cooter do it right!! That looks soooooo nasssssty!!
and is getting interesting on Rants n Raves? I need to go over there and check it out! Someone ought post her picture over there. I wonder what that girls Mom would think. YUCK!
And how is he going through so many jobs? Did he get a dishonorable discharge from the army? If so...how is he even GETTING a job?