I just moved here, thanks to the army, and I can't believe so many people on this site asking for help!! I thought people "sold" items on here not "beg"for them !! Geez, give me a break!! Is there no other place in this city to ask for help?? I hope we don't have to stay here long... No, I don't care what you think, your opinion means nothing to me. I'm not here to make friends. I have plenty of those back home!! I've been here for a month now and I HATE it. This city stinks and there are alot of beggars! Oh, I've looked at some of your items and most are OVERPRICED. Who cares how much you paid when you bought it!! How much is it worth today, duh?? I'm sure alot of you will get mad and "flag" this.. I really don't care, go ahead because I just created this account to let you know that your prices are too high and laugh at the beggars!! I wouldn't buy anything from this site, I'll stick to the OKC Craigslist, not so much begging and better items, lol!! Have a GREAT day, I know I will!!!! P.S. the "lady" with the preggo teenage daughter should've taught her birth control and she wouldn't be on here begging!! But she will learn how to beg!!!!!!!! Aren't you so proud???  

Why would she teach her birthcontrol when the government will shell out money for welfare and foodstamps? 

Why would she teach her birthcontrol when the government will shell out money for welfare and foodstamps? 

Yes, yet another child we'll have to pay for!! Tisk, tisk.. we teach about birth control in Las Vegas, lol!! 

You know if parents taught there kids what I was taught there wouldn't be such a problem...... My discussion with my father was... " all you need to know about sex young lady is don't do it. And if you do you'll get prego and I will take the abortion out of your allowance". Cruel but effective 

I totally agree!! 

It's funny how people resort to begging. I laugh at them too. They have no dignity or respect for themselves. And as reality does, they had a choice long before they got to a point of begging. It was a clear conscience choice of what their future was to bring. 

Hmmmm...I hate but I actually agree with the begging issue., y do people do that? It's really annoying. Take that lady with the teen mom that is moving out, she's been begging for donations for the past week, saying that they don't have money and all that bs, then she's looking for a wii fit, what kinda sh*t is that? If you dont have money how can you be willing to buy a freaking wii? Ugh! Why can't she take that money she's gon spend on the wii and buy her daughter the stuff she needs? I tell you, people! 

Well of corse she needs a wii fit silly..... she's gonna play it on that free tv somone gave her so she can lose the baby weight.... and silly they have the money because welfare pays the rent and foodstamps feeds them.... and why should she shell out the money when she has learned others will take care of you? Make perfect sence to me 

You know what, it does make sense now! People abusing the system...disgusting! They're just taking away from people who really need assistance. 

My discussion with my father was... " all you need to know about sex young lady is don't do it. And if you do you'll get prego and I will take the abortion out of your allowance". Your dad could have been my moms twin, I kid you not. 

You're right Linda, they're taking from the families who need help because they lost their house to a fire or tornado. Her pregnant teen needs to be an adult and get a job if she thinks she can perform adult acts. 

Lol yea.... my dad is old school 

You know she is out begging for handouts and crap....But I am wondering where the father is in all of this....! 

Wow this is totally correct, I hate people who beg for things, get off your butt and work for it. The government makes it too easy for people to get assistance, all they have to do is show up with a bunch of kids and they hand everything to them! The people who really need the help are always turned down!! Did anyone ever drive past the building on gore? Have you ever noticed that 99% of all the cars are new and expensive!! Most of us in the (real world) who have to work for a living, can't afford anything like that. Just remember all us hard working people we help pay for all of that, it's enough to make you want to go out and grab them by the neck!!! lol 

You know I was told a story of how a woman came to a church asking for them to pay her light bill..... she was a single mother She had her hair done, nails done, designer clothes and drove there in a new lexus... but couldn't pay the light bill? The reason these people can do this is because socity has made it possible for people to get paid to breed 

im lmfao...everyone runs into hard times...im a single mother, work 2 jobs, pay for everything and its still hard...then they tell me i didnt qualify for assistance...but yeah ppl who rape the system just irritates the crap outta me...ppl go apply for food stamps driving an escalade....nice! 

Lol, I have seen this many times. I actually had a frien who got a BMW while she was in Germany and was asking people for money to put gas in it, hillarious! But her hair and nails were always done...hmmmm... 

some of the things you people say just dosent make any sense. I am a mom of two kids. I served in the military for seven years, ive deployed to iraq twice. I gotout of the military and it has been pretty difficult finding a stable job that can pay all our bills. I am on welfare and WIC and I drivce up there with a very nice expensive car that does not mean that I dont need welfare idiots. It means I brought the car at a point in my life where things were going very well. hello theres a five year lon so if things get jacked up later in life your still stuck with the car and the car note. I too get my hair and nails done every now and then. just because Im on welfare dosent mean when I cant spoil myself once or twice a year. my parents give me money for holidays and birthdays for me and both kids so I normally use that money to buy us things we cant normally affrod. Also my parents get us a lot of really nice stuff because they want to spoil there grandkids. Just because I have a lot of nice stuff does not mean I dont need assistance. It means that I may have people in my life that care about me and try to make our lives better for us as much as they possibly can. Stop judging everyone on welfare as a whole. every one is different and has different needs for whatever reason. Just because I have a nice car and spoil myself once in a while does not mean that i shouldnt get assistance and am cheating the system. youd ont know whose paying for what. My mom will pay for me get pampered whenever she goes because shes just that way and has been all of my life. I had my first kid when I was 25 and still had a ahrd time struggling. i served my time for my country and sacrificed so much so yeah i deserve what I get and I will take it u ntil they can no longer give it... and I will still continue to look good too! just becasue Im on welfare and WIC for assistance does not mean that I have to look like a bum and un taken care of. and those name brand clothes I wear Ive had for years so stop judging people if you dont know there situation. peoples lives take them in different directions and at one point things could have been good for them and now theyre not.. and guess what all the nice stuff I had before I was on assistance, Is till have them. wow how about that. 

Hmmm let's let the system buy our milk and cereal so we can go get our hair done and have tips put on our nails. Sounds about like someone who's taking advantage of the system and who doesn't have priorities set right just because it makes life easier and doesn't seem to hurt anyone. WRONG!! If you truely needed help then you'd do your hair and nails yourself. DUH!!! 

HMMMMMM. I know I just put that my mons pays for it and when I do get it done I know I wrote that its with th emoney she gives me for my birthday and holidays or did you just read what you want and skipped the rest. ive paid my dues to the government for seven years in the military and then for 3 years working as a civilian not to mention my parents have paid into the governments pocket for over 40 years each so yes I feel entitled to the governments help. Just because I dont have much money dosent mean my kids should suffer. Ive done my best and now we havong a hard time so yes the government should assist us after all ve assiste dthe government and everyone for so long its about time I got something in return. Just because someone needs assistance does not mean that once or twice a year they cant do something nice for themselves and there kids. Hope your never in anay situation in which you need help because when you eat your words youw ont be so righteous. And yes Im sure you think it will never happen to you as I Thought once but it did and Im working my way through it. Whats the point of working hard and paying taxes if when I need help I cant get it. Also someone on assiatnce does not mean they are so broke they cant afford nice things every now and then it means that they need some assistance in there monthly food expensives to alleviate some of the financial burden at time. with me some months are better than others it depends on our monthly utilities on how high they are. they differ monthly and it depends on what im buying. My kids go to s chool they need clothes and supplies and just like everyone they out grow there clothes. you people talk lik ethe government is giving us millions and were all taking vacations on the money its just barely $60 a month on WIC and only $128 on food stamps. I work too and make money just like you I dont sit at home and complain about how others get everything even though they dont deserve it. I just dont make it enough. when my husband was here we did just fine but hes gone and Im single with two kids. Regardless of what you think people on public assistance have the right to live there life and enjoy the greater things it has to offer ever now and then. If your married I hope you hubby dosent end up leaving you or maybe i do so you can see what its like to struggle all on your own and trying hard not to let your children be impacted by it to greatly. It annoys me how people around here just thing there better than everyone else theres nothing wrong with being on WIC and welfare. Im not getting my $hit for free Ive earned my right to seek assistance by the government. Ive worked hard and have done things many of you spouses would die just thinking about being in the military. I think Ive earned my time...thank you very much 

Yeah you are right ppl have rough times....the thing is its the ppl that have rough times or are just too lazy to get a dang job that tick us off. OH and you go in there and ask some of the ppl on welfare what they do for a living and i bet you they tell you they dont work. Or they get a job when its almost out and then work there a lil while and then just quit and get right back on....COME ON NOW. But you say for us not to judge them......well apparently we are paying for their bills with our money so I cant B*tch all I want! 

I didnt say that there werent people out there like that... Im not dumb or ignorant I know theres always people out there cheating the system its the easiste way to get waht you want without doing anything and some people thrive off the easy way out of thing. I just jumped in and made a comment because no one specified everyone was just talking in general about people o welfare period and I just wanted to jump in and remind everyone that there are good people out there who deserve the assistance and really do need it. yeah I wont die without the assistance and I know I will survive if they decide I no longer qualify but the assistance is very appreciated by my kids and I. When you judge groups I know its hard not to generalize but sometimes you have to. Not everyone tries to cheat the system although I know for a fact many do. 

If you can live without it YOU DON'T NEED IT.... and to me that IS ABUSE You know I agree amber... MY tax dollars pay YOUR BILLS not mine.... so I will talk about the welfare sytem and the crooks on it all I want 

Ok, so you say you work and also get assistance, also your mom gives you money! Put the money she gives towards the bills, and also talk about someone who needed help, 3 years ago my sons father passed away. 1 year ago i lost my job, swallowed my pride, now keep in mind i never recieved any kind of assistance in my 35 years of working raised my kids and worked 2 jobs(full time!) I had no income, no unemployment, a lousy 200 a month from ssi because my sons father died!! Went down there and all i wanted was medical insurance for my son, I was denied because i got 200 a month from ssi, oh yeah they were real generous, they offered me a whole 10.00 a month for food stamps though. That is a slap in the face, after paying for everyone else all my life!! You want to talk about having new cars and being on assistance, sell the @#$## car, and buy something cheaper!!! You don't need to get your hair and nails done!!!! Wash your on hair and do your own nails, as far as kids outgrowing clothing, go to the goodwill or flea market, they don't need designer clothing!!!! As far as you saying your entitled to government help, what makes you think you are sooo special? There are alot of military and exmilitary people out there and they don't need assistance!!! Your young yet, get another job!!! Complain that you only get barely combined 180.00 a month. You should be able to find another job and earn that 180 a month and quit taking OUR tax dollars!!!! 

EXACTLY MARY! Ppl that are on welfare have all that fancy crap and don't really need it. They just think since they can get money for free that they deserve it. Its said that the ppl that actually sit there and work and better themselves when they need just a lil extra money for food only get approved for like 10 or 20 bucks. I hate knowing that I am paying for everyone else freaking luxuries that I never get to enjoy. I dont get my nails done, I dont go and get my hair done every month, and I certainly don't go and spend my own money on frivilous things i dont NEED! Just think if it costs 22 bucks a month for you to get your nails done that is 264 bucks a year you could have saved. Lets say 60 bucks a month on your hair that is 720 bucks a year! That is almost a thousand dollars in a year that you could have saved. I would rather save almost a thousand and keep it in case something drastic happens. Oh and start saving that birthday and christmas and whatever money your mom gives you and stop being self-fish. You have two kids that need that money worse than you need your nails and hair did and that fancy car. 

Right on ladies!!!! 

MARY--- Just because you think people on assiatnce dont deserve a break a few nice things dosent mean its right. And dont think I havent tried to sell myc ar but I owe more than what its worth since I refinanced twice so I can afford to make the payments. Also I own a home and pay a hefty mortagage and with realestate being the way it is IO would lose to much by selling my home and would have to come up with more money than I have just to sell it. I work to pay my bills, my mom shouldnt have to pay them and she dosent. and she does not give me the money to pay for bils she gives me money so i can go do something for my self and buy the kids toys. things that we can only do a few times a year. Until you dont have the things your used to you will never know what its like to not have them. so when I get the chance to enjoy life I do. Even if you or anyone else dosent approve. I work all day at a job that dosent oay much and you yeah you say find another job that does pay enough well since you make it sound so easy why dont you find some jobs for me and then I will. Ive been up and down lawton and on post and no one is looking to here without the right experience or with my hours because children do need to be picked up at certain times. I also go to school online with the pell grant I recieve and Im a full time mom.. so yeah life gets hard and I deserve a break. The money I get from my mom is not for bills that what I work for and some times what I make isnt enough so the money and free food I get from the government does help and I will continue to take it as long as they give it. Im not SYS begging ppl for stuff or craigslist like most. I get it from the government. Ive paid my taxes and now I need help so yeah I know i deserve it regardless of what the righteous bunch think. Just because when you were out of work and your sons father died you didnt choose recieve assistance does not mean that others shouldnt. Thats why people pay taxes so when they lose there jobs or need help the government has the money and the agencies to assist people. Anywho you make things sound so great and easy why dont you come down here and buy my car then. And BTW I do get my clothes second hand for myself and my kids and most of our furniture and stuff is second hand. But just because you think people on welfare should look rugged and be rediculously broke and poor and should have nothing nice and shouldnt enjoy life dosent make that right. Its not like we cheat the system the government knows my income and I report all monies I recieve and I qualified. so please save your speec for someone who really cares because I dont. MARY__ no one ever said I get my hair and nails done every month,, god you idiots really do read only what you want... its seriously pathetic. i said once or twice a year I treat myself. really once or twice a year is not a lot at all. I treat myself with money I get for birthdays and holidays I mean I know I said that. If any of you guys are having problems reading let me know Ill try to upload pictures.. I really wish you would saved the time you spent on the calculator adding up amounts that I never even said I did. What a moron! and my hair cut that I get is $15 bucks at walmart..hurry get back on the computer and multiply that by 12.. 

Also Mary I could really slap you seriously.. Im not being selfish thats my birthday. I sacrifice all year long I think its ok if I do something nice for myself once in a blue> i sacrafice all year long so my kids never get to know what its like to struggle. I make life great for them as much as I can and so do my parents. so Im not being selfish your being a f#cken moron for even suggesting that. your just mad because your life sucks and although Im singke with kids and on assistance my life is stills eemingly better than yours. Just because you dont get your nails done or hair done once in a blue dosent mean others dont deserve to pamper themselves on there birthday. stop hating seriously... And I never said Iw as special for recieving assistance but you all wine about paying taxes blah blah blah and paying for ppls assiatnce well none of you have paid mine and never have Ive paid taxes my whole life and still do so yeah if I need help and the government who takes most of my earnings says I qualify then your damn right Im going to take it. you can keep complaining about it all you want girls but at the end of the day theres nothing you can do about it... well I lvoe to continue chatting but I have to go to the store and get my weekly milk and cheese. later 

lmas... I just came on here to see what was new and guess what they are having the same argumenton CL. Check this out mammies I amd on DHS and I love it. I dont work and havent for the passed 3 year. the DHS system here in the US is rediculous they throw money at you. I get over 500 a month for food on my card plus wic for bread milk and egs and formular for my kid. what even more crazy is my wife get paid for fostering kids in the house as well which pays my bills. Im gald I came here to get all this help I may never go to work again. Im going to tell all my homies about the american dhs system so they can come and take advantage as well.. to the d lady your dumb why you working get off of work leave them go and get on the system full time you will get way more money plus they pay your daycare and help wit the utilities. shoo my girl get here hair done every two weeks and her nails with the money she make working under the table. also mz lynn people ask for help becuz they know theres alway some sucka who will come along and help them and give them what they want and need. if you can get itf or free why not. ya all crazy complaining and complaining ya could use this time on line at the dhs office. oh and I drive a 2009 toyota tundra pick up with 22 on it hell yeah and my women got her own car too. its not about what you give its about what you get .. all the way from mexico and worth the trip. well ya chould check out CL got some real serious stories out there way more entertaining then here..LMFAS